Saturday, December 8, 2012

"We Don't Say Those Words in Class!"



A time when you witnessed an adult (or yourself) reprimand or silence a child after he or she pointed out someone they saw as different (e.g., "That lady talks funny," " That man only has one leg!" "Why is that man so pretty!"). Include what the child said and what the adult did or said in response. (Note: If you cannot think of a specific time ask a friend or family member.)
I have always had respect for those who may be a different color, walk a different way, because I have been a part of that diversity all my life.  As a young child in school, I was called names because I have been over weight. I was not picked to be on the team, but the last one pick because I was the only fat one left. I had been hurt myself so I know how it feels when someone one say something that was insulting to another person. The first time my niece saw me walking with my brace on my leg and using my walker,  she asked if me if my leg hurt?
What messages might have been communicated to this child by the adult's response
I told her yes, it does sometimes. I let her touch my leg to see how it feels. She told the others not to get into my way.  Do not bump my leg, because it would hurt me. My niece is just four.
An example of how an anti-bias educator might have responded to support the child's (or classroom's ) understanding
I feel we need to make sure that there are books, flash cards or puppets available to the children that can address all types of disabilities; children in wheelchairs, on crutches, pictures of large and small children, and puppets that show children without a limb. This will help with the hands on feel.  They need to feel to help them understand why as well. Children can also broaden their knowledge by sorting pictures into different categories. A set of pictures showing people with disabilities in active roles in their homes (Laureate Education, Inc., 2011)
Sandra
Reference
Laureate Education, Inc., (2011) “Start Seeing Diversity: Physical Ability and Characteristics” (Transcripts) Diversity, Development, and Learning -Baltimore, MD; (Author)

4 comments:

  1. Sandra,

    Your story about your niece made me think that we all should talk openly about our differences to children. I believe that we all have something different from most other people. Things like racial identities down to small things like being tall, average height, or short or having big feet, small feet, moles or freckles all differentiate us. I think talking about these features openly and positively helps children find out how they want to get involved with people with differences as your niece did.

    Aya

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  2. Hi Sandra,
    You did a wonderful job giving your niece just enough information to get your message across. Preschoolers need the information that they can comprehend and understand. You were also patient and allowed her to explore without brushing her off.
    Good job!
    Lori

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  3. Hi Sandra! You have given some excellent strategies on creating an anti-bias environment and how educators can foster anti-bias behavior. Most of the time, children are hungry for knowledge and understanding. They often have questions about how and why people are different from each other. It is essential that anti-bias educators are prepared to use necessary materials to promote everyone embracing diversity!

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  4. Hi Sandra,

    I agree that we should use necessary material to explain difference and diversity to our students. We should make them aware that people may look different or act different then we do does not make them less of a human so therefore we should treat everyone with the upmost respect.

    THanks for the post.

    Erica Hines

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