Perspectives on Diversity and
Culture
I asked my
mom about culture and she blew me aways with her answer. I thought she would talk about the things like
costumes, festivals, and food. She talked my grandma and the values and morals
that she still tries to live by today. She said my grandfather made them go to
church every Sunday. No one ever stayed home. She mentioned working in the fields,
how they stayed cool under the pecan tree when it was hot like it is now. Diversity
to her is when we all, (my family) come together to eat and enjoy each other
company.
My friend
Virginia who is also my classmate from high school laugh at me because she said
‘girl you know we are like night and day when it comes to culture. She told me
about church, (we are both Baptist) but her culture does not say in there all
day. The food we eat is so different. She does like greens, okra, and neck-bones
and rice though. I had to laugh on that. Her answer to diversity is the
different people she works with. Her co-workers are from all over the world.
I learned
about surface culture and deep culture this week. Surface culture is all about
what we see on the outside or what is on top. Food, costumes, festivals, photos
and artifacts are the material things that people hold close to them. My mom
and Virginia talked about the deep culture, what is inside of each of us. It is
our ways of doing things. Mom tells of going to church every Sunday. Virginia
talking about the difference in time each of us spent in church. Diversity is
left out because I believe that culture is just that, and it is what we have to
respect when it comes to other children and their families.
Sandra,
ReplyDeleteI can relate to the pecan trees and being cool under them. It reminds me of my grandmother and aunt in Mississippi. Picking greens and peas from the garden and enjoying life. Your friend also made a good point about diversity in the workplace. Nice post.
Let us all remember this post and never underestimate the wisdom of mothers!
ReplyDeleteFYI, my wife an I have tree collards growing in our back yard - a gift from her grandmother.
I got teased when I tried to cook them the first (and 2nd and 3rd time)because I didn't cook them nearly long enough.
I missed out on my grandparents wisdom - they both spoke only Japanese. I really missed out on my mom's wisdom... I worked too hard and my mind never slowed down enough to linger on her words. She passed six months ago today.
Don't miss out. Have many more wonderful conversations with your mom!